In response to several emails inquiring why I haven't linked to the Kim du Toit Pussification essay on manhood. I haven't had time to read it. First, my latte machine screwed up and just absolutely destroyed my morning. Believe it or not I missed my aerobics class. Then my girl friend needed her dog walked and her parakeet fed. Then my ex-wife demanded I pick up one of my kids from Ritalin treatment and drop him off at therapy and I just got home and found that my favorite TV show, which is Oprah, won't be on. I'll get to reading Kim's little essay tonight. If my girl friend will let me. I hear the essay is just fab. Except that he talks about guns which frighten the dickens out of me. And I hear he also talks about balls. Talk of balls always makes me tingly.